Finding a polite way to tell your girlfriend her makeup is bad or she puts on too much makeup without hurting her feelings can be difficult. Makeup until recently has become a big deal for most women and nothing hurts more than spending hours to look good only to be told you look bad.
Below are simple ways to approach the subject.
- Smile. Don’t be too serious, she’s going think you’re weird.
- Tell her you want to talk about something, but assure her it’s not too serious.
- Discuss the situation in private. If you choose to address the issue, talk to her in a quiet location away from people.
- be direct. You want to be kind, but you also want to state your concerns as clearly as possible to prevent on-going discussions about this matter. Find the most appropriate, considerate way to state your point while retaining clarity
- Do not go straight to the point. You might sound rude. Try asking how she’s doing, give her your maximum attention.
- Gently let them know. There are different ways of being direct and it depends on the situation on which to use. Do not use colorful adjectives.
- Compliment her before approaching the subject to reduce the awkwardness which will follow.
- Do well not to let her know if friends and family have also complained about the problem. Make sure to end the conversation on a good note.
- Mind your tone. The way you communicate with your words and through your actions can affect her. Therefore mind your tone and action when on the subject.
- Before you end the conversation, tell her you care about her and that’s the reason you decided to tell her the truth. Otherwise, you wouldn’t say a thing
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